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Ask Questions During College Visits
Is your child a high school Junior? It's time for college visits!
For example, you might discuss your college major. "I'm thinking about this major but I don't really like one aspect" or "I really love this major, do you think it is a good fit, and how do you know?" Asking questions during college visits is not always about yes or no questions such as, "Do you offer a biology major?" or questions that can be answered with a one sentence reply such as "Is Chapel required for all students?" Part of asking questions is allowing the college to get to know you and who you are as a person. They will get to know you and be more likely to remember you, particularly if you ask questions that show you value their opinion.
You may want to discuss extra-curricular on-campus activities. "I've had so much fun with my high school activities and I'm wondering what activities you think I might enjoy on campus." This kind of question will answer the usually unspoken question, "What about socialization?" By openly discussing your high school activities and saying how much you enjoy them, it demonstrates great social skills. More importantly perhaps, colleges value students that will become active on campus. They want students who will participate in more than just academics. By showing that you are eager to join on-campus groups, you are showing that you will be a valuable asset to the college for the long run. You want them to know you won't just be hiding in the library studying, and will bring more to campus than just your brain.
Everyone likes the sound of their own voice, even college admission advisers. Ask questions, but also ask them what they think, and show you value their opinion. Remember, it's mostly about being yourself, vulnerable and genuine. Look them in the eye, and be interested in them as a person.
Making college visits isn't the only thing you should be doing in Junior year of high school. Find out more about what makes Junior year succesful in my Coffee Break Book, Junior Year is the Key to Homeschool Success.
Are you starting to tour colleges with your high school Junior? Please share!
Please note: This post was originally published in February 2013 and has been revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
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Yes, we are starting. A few weeks ago we went to an open house at our local university. Next month we are driving to see my family, and my son asked if we could visit some colleges on the way. Well, of course we can, son. He has found two we'll visit, and another in-state college road trip is being planned by my husband and son (I think the plan is to attend a major league game while they're at it!) My daughter was never interested in visiting colleges. She applied locally and is finishing up her soph. year and living at home.
Way to go, Lois! Jumping on that inclination shows that you are willing to put "feet" to your preparedness and support.
Robin
Assistant to The HomeScholar