Ask Questions During College Visits
Published on March 10, 2015 by LeeBinz

Is your child a high school Junior? It’s time for college visits!
You may want to discuss extra-curricular on-campus activities. “I’ve had so much fun with my high school activities and I’m wondering what activities you think I might enjoy on campus.” This kind of question will answer the usually unspoken question, “What about socialization?” By openly discussing your high school activities and saying how much you enjoy them, it demonstrates great social skills. More importantly perhaps, colleges value students that will become active on campus. They want students who will participate in more than just academics. By showing that you are eager to join on-campus groups, you are showing that you will be a valuable asset to the college for the long run. You want them to know you won’t just be hiding in the library studying, and will bring more to campus than just your brain.
Everyone likes the sound of their own voice, even college admission advisers. Ask questions, but also ask them what they think, and show you value their opinion. Remember, it’s mostly about being yourself, vulnerable and genuine. Look them in the eye, and be interested in them as a person.
Making college visits isn’t the only thing you should be doing in Junior year of high school. Find out more about what makes Junior year succesful in my Coffee Break Book, Junior Year is the Key to Homeschool Success.
Are you starting to tour colleges with your high school Junior? Please share!

Please note: This post was originally published in February 2013 and has been revamped and updated for accuracy and comprehensiveness.